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Cornertime Confidential sings the praises of SouthSpanking.com all the time. I think James' site is just terrific and unlike SpankThisHookups.com there's so much content to share! James has encouraged me time and again to share, so here's the latest find. A long time ago, his sites user Cal wrote his "Spanking Guide for Naughty Boyz." Today, Cornertime Confidential is thrilled to share with you. 

SPANKING A YOUNG MAN TODAY

by Cal (reposted from SouthSpanking.com)

*Note* All references to 'young man' and 'boy' mean an adult male over the age of 18.

There's only one sure way to educate, guide, and control an unruly, underachieving, overly playing around young man. Nothing works better than the time-tested trousers way down, over the knee you trust, and respect MUST be developed first, Spanking a boy arises out of the context of a real care between the two individuals involved.

The Bottom Line

Young men always do best when their have structure, guidance, and effective discipline that is swift, sure, and dependable. You need to understand the young man, yes, and in addition to nurturing him, you must set and strictly enforce boundaries. Still, I would argue from experience that nothing works better than a good swift Spanking for a boy who gets out of line.

Beginning?

In a disciplinary relationship, if you have not brought him up in one (or took him in with the understanding he would be in one), some power struggles are always going to have to be eliminated. You decide when, where, and why punishment will occur and you draw that line very, very clearly. Your boy must understand and come to ultimately accept that punishment can occur at any time. He is Spanked whenever you see fit to Spank him. He will have no say when or how his Spankings will occur. If he has not been Spanked for years (some these days never have!), you can expect some resistance to your decisions to Spank him; but you must enforce your decisions and follow through no matter what. Over time, he will come to understand that when you decide to Spank him, he will be Spanked. He may not think he needs one or even that he deserves one, but he will learn that your decision is final and he will get one.

You must first have a good relationship based on respect, trust, care, and even real love and concern for him and his future. In this context, his punishment and his Spankings follow naturally and can be extremely educational. He needs to know and emotionally be sure that you are Spanking him for his own best future. And he must know his discipline and Spankings will occur now and in the foreseeable future.

To read all three sections of this detailed and resourceful guide gp to southspanking.com or https://cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com/2017/03/spanking-guide-for-naughty-boyz.html